Random Ramblings From FallenNstar

Something to think about

Posted by FallenStarNBabylon | Filed under Relationship/Dating Stuff

Will we all make it?

Currently 43% of Black women have never been married in comparison to 23.6% of white women.

Something to think about.

2partssoul Says:
July 20th, 2008 at 6:54 am
Whats the deal with marriage any way. People spend so much time trying to make it to the “big day” that they forget all the shit that happend afterwards.

Most married people don’t have FOCUS…
2partssoul Says:
July 20th, 2008 at 6:56 am
and I just realized that my comment had nothing to do with the post. I guess its sad that black women aren’t getting married up, but whats the rush. Its better to wait forever for the right one then to settle for a nigga in the way.

I think thats on the topic.
Robert Says:
November 14th, 2008 at 6:39 pm
One issue most often cited by black men when discussing relationships with black women is that black women tend to be a bit “opinionated.” Now, before you all jump on me, I’m not saying all black women fit into a certain category or that it is undesirable for a black women to be strong. I am saying that each of us, man and women, need to know how to let each other be just that in a relationship. Each of us need to be committed, understanding, and a little less selfish. Finally, as a black man in his late forties, one of the most important things for me to get from a black women are empathy–understanding when I’ve made mistake, soothing words when I’m afraid, nonjudgmental advice when I need help with a decision, and praise when I‘ve done good.

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