And I question myself again…What is it bout’ men?
Posted by FallenStarNBabylon | Filed under Relationship/Dating Stuff
Attention ALL BOGO luvers!!
The in’s and out’s of anyrelationship (not just girlfriend/boyfriend) albeit good, bad or in-between also consists of a start, middle and an end.
When a man fails to be just that a grown ass MAN and fails to close out one chapter of his life before giddily opening another, it stands to reason that at some point things will get messy;its an unavoidable drawback to bitchassness!! One should take into account that if they intend on bringing in a third party, then they should have enough comprehension that sloppiness is NOT an option. It truly isn’t.
It is disappointing to know that you allow someone into your life, despite their baggage (and it’s weight), only for them to lead you a dance that will eventually steer you in the direction of getting hurt (for lack of a better word). Friendships and those in them should be valued.
It drives me insane to know that when you allow a friend and their effin’ nonsense into your life( because you genuinely care for them), that they turn around and have the unmitigated gall to dismiss your feelings as quick as if you were asking them for a stick of gum. Boggles the mind, it does. It is a fundamental lack of respect that will inevitably have you tell the other person to eff off and kick push to the other side of the world.
There is a saying that, what is done in the dark will eventually come to light and it is a very true testimony to some recent events.
Men want their cake and want to ability to eat it too – but if that’s your desire then you must understand the rules of the game before you start to play. Bitchassness is not allowed when you have a situation that could potentially be detrimental to someone else’s life ( physically and emotionally). Understand that for every action there WILL be a REACTION; and when that reaction comes in the form of wrath, anger and rage – one should not act surprised or bewildered nor should there be any anger because of the reaction. There should however, be some sense of contriteness especially when the end result is due to your dumb ass behavior.
In closing, on a more personal note, I’d like to send a message to the BOGO stepper: It would be wise to put a leash around that bitch and yank on that collar as she is getting outta pocket. When she crossed the line, you BOTH opened pandora’s box… For the love of god, MAN UP. Grab the area that should contain your package, find it, hold them FIRMLY and repeat: I AM A MAN!! I AM A MAN!! I. AM. A. MAN. DAMNIT!! It’s one thing to swing dyck as if it were cotton candy but if you can’t put your foot down and take control of a bad situation then you need to keep your narrow arse to the confines of your self made misery. Don’t bring it and try to dump it else where.
February 27th, 2009 at 6:24 am
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March 2nd, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Bitchassness is indeed a very unatractive quality in a man, so is brokeness and cheap shoe wearniness…I mean WTF? At what point in a young man’s life does his father, uncle, father figure, god father not sit him down and tell him to MAN up, always keep a twenty dollar in your pocket and NEVER EVER buy cheap shoes? When is that lesson taught?